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лекція ЯК ГОВОРИТИ ГОВОРИТИ З МАЛЕНЬКИМИ ДІТЬМИ ПІД ЧАС ВІЙНИ
lecture on how to talk to young children during the war
Event by: КІГіП. Київський Інститут Гештальта і Психодрами
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It is critical of the child to feel that they are loved * just so * - not for achievement, obedience or "convenience", but for the fact of its existence.
is an experience that underlies a sense of self -worth. It is from this experience that a healthy ability to self -regulation, self -identification and choice is increasing.
If there was no such experience - if love and acceptance were conditional, depending on the expectation - the child learns to survive due to the cleavage of some of his parts and needs.
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she refuses to be perceived. Internal prohibitions on living in full
in Gestalt approach are formed in the Gestalt approach we say that such a person does not work with contact with their own needs, but from automatism.
it *does not live *, but *survives *-through self-restraint, control, perfectionism, or vice versa. Adapted person.
But inside is a chronic feeling that "something is wrong with me", that love should be deserved to be dangerous.
📌 In the therapeutic process, it is important not just to "give permission" to be yourself.
It is important to create a space where a person can live in a way. Without self -superstition.
Because only then does the choice appear: not to live, but to live.
If this topic is close to you, and you would like to understand more deeply how the feeling of shame and guilt in children growing without unconditional acceptance is formed - Bilki
guilt and shame often become an imperceptible background, which forms an adult life of a person with experience of emotional neglect.
This lecture-an opportunity to explore these feelings in the context of Gestalt therapy: to see how they are formed, manifesting in a relationship and how they can be transformed. 2025
💻 format: online, zoom
🎥 will be a record for registered participants
💸 Cost: 400 UAH (with prepayment)
<> 📥 Details and registration - at the link below:
https://www.kigip.com.ua/sorol-zanedbanyh-ditey
is an experience that underlies a sense of self -worth. It is from this experience that a healthy ability to self -regulation, self -identification and choice is increasing.
If there was no such experience - if love and acceptance were conditional, depending on the expectation - the child learns to survive due to the cleavage of some of his parts and needs.
<
she refuses to be perceived. Internal prohibitions on living in full
in Gestalt approach are formed in the Gestalt approach we say that such a person does not work with contact with their own needs, but from automatism.
it *does not live *, but *survives *-through self-restraint, control, perfectionism, or vice versa. Adapted person.
But inside is a chronic feeling that "something is wrong with me", that love should be deserved to be dangerous.
📌 In the therapeutic process, it is important not just to "give permission" to be yourself.
It is important to create a space where a person can live in a way. Without self -superstition.
Because only then does the choice appear: not to live, but to live.
If this topic is close to you, and you would like to understand more deeply how the feeling of shame and guilt in children growing without unconditional acceptance is formed - Bilki
guilt and shame often become an imperceptible background, which forms an adult life of a person with experience of emotional neglect.
This lecture-an opportunity to explore these feelings in the context of Gestalt therapy: to see how they are formed, manifesting in a relationship and how they can be transformed. 2025
💻 format: online, zoom
🎥 will be a record for registered participants
💸 Cost: 400 UAH (with prepayment)
<> 📥 Details and registration - at the link below:
https://www.kigip.com.ua/sorol-zanedbanyh-ditey