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Workshop Beziehungsweise Consent - Lebendige Beziehungen gestalten
Workshop Or Consent - Creating Living Relationships
Event by: KuschelRaum - Bewusst berühren
Location: Cornelia Dola Tulke-Heilpraxis am Bürgerpark - Raum für KörperBewußtsein, Schulzestraße 21, Berlin - Bezirk Pankow
About event
Workshop Relating to Consent - Creating Lively Relationships
Consent in (long-term) relationships is not easy. A lot is already established and the line between “What needs to/should be asked and what shouldn’t?” is fine. If we open this door, further questions arise: How do we deal with it when things change? What do we do when we are unsure and notice: “Something is strange.”? What do we do to make the other person love us and stay? Are there (asymmetrical) dependencies that might be balanced out (on a physical level)? Is it okay to go beyond your own boundaries (sometimes)? etc. Dealing with these questions brings awareness and opens up the space to create living relationships. Together we can then establish a sustainable basis for healthy and equal cooperation that allows us to show ourselves authentically - something that requires great courage. Clear communication to express expectations and needs (be they boundaries or wishes) and to avoid misunderstandings is just as crucial here as treating each other with respect - both of which strengthen trust in ourselves, in each other and in the relationship.
Living or not living consent has an impact on a relationship and the workshop would like to emphasize that both (everyone) involved benefit from living it. Because in the long term (lazy) compromises lead to the relationship feeling frozen and loveless instead of enriching and fulfilling. Consent (to be understood as an agreement) enables encounters on an equal footing and promotes an environment in which both (everyone) can maintain their autonomy without having to fear negative consequences. It creates the basis for mutual understanding and supports the individual development of both (all) partners.
The path of consent is a journey of discovery that invites depth, trust, familiarity, connection and intimacy.
CONTENT
Consent – a definition
Authentic communication – perceive, become aware, communicate, respect
Types of boundaries – Where do I limit my partner? Where do I feel restricted?
Tactics of wish fulfillment - from harmless to toxic
Discover consent as a possibility of flirting and polarity
Wheel of Consent - experience the four qualities of touch as enrichment
The workshop is aimed at people in relationships (with partners, parents, children, friends...). Although we focus somewhat on romantic relationships because the challenges are usually greatest there, the knowledge, experiences, insights and gifts of this workshop can be transferred to all relationships - each can be actively shaped and experienced vividly.
On Saturday we will experience a Conscious Cuddle Experience with other people - consciously touching so that we can immediately apply what we have learned. The cuddle party is included in the price. Please let us know if you would like to take part. We'll discuss this on Sunday.
LOCATION
Room for body awareness, Schulzestr. 21, 13187 Berlin, 3 minutes walk from S-Bahn station Wollankstr., Berlin-Pankow
TIME
Saturday: 10:00 a.m. - 3:30 p.m. (+ optional cuddle party "Conscious Cuddle Experience - Conscious Touch" 5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.)
Sunday: 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m.
(Please arrive at least 10 minutes early so that we can start together on time.)
PRICE
188 €/person (166 € reduced*) Come as a couple: 166 €/person (144 € reduced*) The cuddle party is included in the price.
The fee must be paid in advance by bank transfer. You will receive the account details when you register.
* The discount applies to pensioners, pupils, students and recipients of social benefits.
REGISTRATION
Your registration is necessary because we only have a limited number of places.
Write us an email and feel free to register. With our confirmation, your registration is binding.*
Mail: [email protected]
*Please read our terms and conditions for workshops.
IMPORTANT
Please bring cozy clothes with you and enough so that you can change into fresh ones if necessary.
Come freshly showered, hold back from all smells (deodorant, perfume, etc.) and make sure you are well-groomed Exterior. Touching contact involves all senses, not just touch. Feel free to read our cuddling etiquette.
Consent in (long-term) relationships is not easy. A lot is already established and the line between “What needs to/should be asked and what shouldn’t?” is fine. If we open this door, further questions arise: How do we deal with it when things change? What do we do when we are unsure and notice: “Something is strange.”? What do we do to make the other person love us and stay? Are there (asymmetrical) dependencies that might be balanced out (on a physical level)? Is it okay to go beyond your own boundaries (sometimes)? etc. Dealing with these questions brings awareness and opens up the space to create living relationships. Together we can then establish a sustainable basis for healthy and equal cooperation that allows us to show ourselves authentically - something that requires great courage. Clear communication to express expectations and needs (be they boundaries or wishes) and to avoid misunderstandings is just as crucial here as treating each other with respect - both of which strengthen trust in ourselves, in each other and in the relationship.
Living or not living consent has an impact on a relationship and the workshop would like to emphasize that both (everyone) involved benefit from living it. Because in the long term (lazy) compromises lead to the relationship feeling frozen and loveless instead of enriching and fulfilling. Consent (to be understood as an agreement) enables encounters on an equal footing and promotes an environment in which both (everyone) can maintain their autonomy without having to fear negative consequences. It creates the basis for mutual understanding and supports the individual development of both (all) partners.
The path of consent is a journey of discovery that invites depth, trust, familiarity, connection and intimacy.
CONTENT
Consent – a definition
Authentic communication – perceive, become aware, communicate, respect
Types of boundaries – Where do I limit my partner? Where do I feel restricted?
Tactics of wish fulfillment - from harmless to toxic
Discover consent as a possibility of flirting and polarity
Wheel of Consent - experience the four qualities of touch as enrichment
The workshop is aimed at people in relationships (with partners, parents, children, friends...). Although we focus somewhat on romantic relationships because the challenges are usually greatest there, the knowledge, experiences, insights and gifts of this workshop can be transferred to all relationships - each can be actively shaped and experienced vividly.
On Saturday we will experience a Conscious Cuddle Experience with other people - consciously touching so that we can immediately apply what we have learned. The cuddle party is included in the price. Please let us know if you would like to take part. We'll discuss this on Sunday.
LOCATION
Room for body awareness, Schulzestr. 21, 13187 Berlin, 3 minutes walk from S-Bahn station Wollankstr., Berlin-Pankow
TIME
Saturday: 10:00 a.m. - 3:30 p.m. (+ optional cuddle party "Conscious Cuddle Experience - Conscious Touch" 5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.)
Sunday: 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m.
(Please arrive at least 10 minutes early so that we can start together on time.)
PRICE
188 €/person (166 € reduced*) Come as a couple: 166 €/person (144 € reduced*) The cuddle party is included in the price.
The fee must be paid in advance by bank transfer. You will receive the account details when you register.
* The discount applies to pensioners, pupils, students and recipients of social benefits.
REGISTRATION
Your registration is necessary because we only have a limited number of places.
Write us an email and feel free to register. With our confirmation, your registration is binding.*
Mail: [email protected]
*Please read our terms and conditions for workshops.
IMPORTANT
Please bring cozy clothes with you and enough so that you can change into fresh ones if necessary.
Come freshly showered, hold back from all smells (deodorant, perfume, etc.) and make sure you are well-groomed Exterior. Touching contact involves all senses, not just touch. Feel free to read our cuddling etiquette.